Stephen :

If you download the standalone version , just try to modify the DataProvider.cs:

  public override CuteSoft.Chat.UserCategory[] GetUserPropertyCategories()
  {
   return new CuteSoft.Chat.UserCategory[]{
                new CuteSoft.Chat.UserCategory("Gender","Gender",new string[]{"Male","Female","NotSet"}),
                new CuteSoft.Chat.UserCategory("Interests","Interests"),
                new CuteSoft.Chat.UserCategory("Location","Location"),
                new CuteSoft.Chat.UserCategory("Occupation","Occupation"),
   };
  }

Please remove the  new CuteSoft.Chat.UserCategory("Gender","Gender",new string[]{"Male","Female","NotSet"}),

 

Regards , Terry .